Several years ago in
the frenzy of getting Christmas presents planned, I knew I would not be
able to do all I wanted. The thought came to me that I would send out a
request page of what kind of Quilt I could make for my brother and his
wife. I knew that would buy me some time. By March they sent me their
specifications – all that really stuck out from the page wasn’t the size
(queen) or the type (traditional) but one little word – RED. I practically
had red as non-existent in my stash. Not that I didn’t like it, I loved
red, but I had never worked with it. Why? Fear of bleeding? Too Red
Raider-ish? Too valentiney? Nonetheless I began my red quest frenzy every time I came near a fabric
store or went on a shop hop. By the end of April I had so many reds, blacks
and pinks and every thing in between that I was ready to find the right
pattern. First I had a great “scrappy” pattern and began slashing and
slicing all the pieces. I followed the next step a quilter usually does and
threw them up on a design board. “Threw up” is not to be taken lightly ---
scrappy became crappy. My fears were realized; it looked like a chewed up
and spit out Valentiney Red Raider horse blanket. I abandoned the whole
thing – in despair. Now what? I lamented my dismay to my dear quilting friends, Maureen and
Beth, as we were walking into a favorite store. I pulled out my recent
magazine on the subject and began flipping through the pages. I said if I
really wanted to do one right for them it should look like—this--- pointing
to a pattern featured in the magazine. “So let’s look at likely fabrics”,
Maureen said. Thirty minutes later we were walking out the door with all
the fabric for THE ONE. I was ready to “get’er done.” Little did I realize that the 20 blocks had over 60 pieces in each of them,
and I was also going to be tackling a never attempted skill of appliqué.
This might take a little more than the couple of months I had planned. I
didn’t even want to think about the quilting itself, so I proceeded to
piece, and piece, and piece all summer long.
Finally in August the top was
done! I called on a few friends and we “sandwiched” the top, batting and
backing together in record time. Maureen offered to teach me how to use her
big long-arm quilting machine. Pushing my new fears aside, I said okay. For
about 3 weeks I would go over to her house after school and quilt. I soon
stopped my “white-knuckle” driving and began to really see this beauty
emerging. In spite of all the imperfections, I was proud to pull it off the
machine and hurry home to bind it. That gave me the slow down time to think
about the label, and what I would name it.
As I formed the pieces for the
label Rutledge Red came to mind. That had to be it. Knowing how much Tricia
loves red, and how much Tom loves Tricia, the two came together. The two
words joined a perfect union, just like Tom and Tricia do. I began quilting as a selfish act as a way to work through my own grief and
healing, but it has now become such a piece of myself, that I want to share
it with all whom I love. But, I also hate to “push my homemade-y” stuff on
people. Hopefully this quilt created in love will be used in the same
spirit it was given.
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This such a lovely post. Only recently I've started quilting. It certainly isn't a solitary hobby. I've met the nicest people and already have a very compulsive stash of fabrics. Sometimes, I just look it and simply enjoy all the colors. We have a wonderful cloth studio near where I live and people make their own fabrics but I don't know that I'll ever be that brave! The quilt is gorgeous and I'm sure your brother and his wife will treasure it always. Rutledge is a very handsome name.
ReplyDeleteBelieve me. Receiving a quilt from someone is much different than receiving a fruitcake. Giving and receiving handmade items - especially quilts are things anyone should value. Your brother and sister-in-law must be very dear to you. I love the red. If you're talking about Texas Tech, the red is perfect! Being an honorary Red Raider is quite an honor for me. Tech is a fine school and anyone would be proud to have their degree from there. Applique is another story. Very hard. Fine needle turn work. Very hard indeed. Good job!
ReplyDeleteAlways a lovely post by you. You've inspired me, once again, to do something more than put in my time into the routine I can get locked into and not take time for the niceties like quilting and using it to nurture people I love.
ReplyDeleteThis is certainly one of the most gorgeous quilts I've ever seen. Quilting takes into consideration every wonderful aspect of being part of a community and the balance of alone time. From time to time, I try to get back into my Jinny Beyer hand quilting so that I can take a project with me. Having lost my two little cats in the last month, I am able to sit and work on a Jinny project, without being interrupted. I always chose putting down the project rather than one of them! I'll never regret it - a little like when you get told you will spoil your kids if you rock them to sleep each night. Well, I did with all of them and to this day, it is my happiest memory. When I machine quilted, I carefully set the girls (I called the cats "The Girls") up so that they were comfortable and would sleep while I quilted. When I sewed in the bedroom, it was especially peaceful while they slept on the bed. I guess I will always equate in some way my cats with the pleasantness of quilting. I'm glad that I didn't impulsively give away over 10 yards of Laurel Burch Christmas Cats. Do you keep any quilts for yourself? I don't. I think I'll start that Christmas fabric quilt and keep it all to myself! Thanks for the inspiration. It will help me with my grief over my girls. I haven't felt this intensity of loss since my father died over 30 years ago. Letting go of anything is so hard for me. I'd be a raving maniac without my faith to sort through every step of the way though my faith has changed so much over the years and sometimes been very frail - even lazy - sometimes barely there. I met an atheist at a function last week - a quilter and Master Gardener! Another subject. (Maybe you'll tackle atheism in a future post...) This is a wonderful piece. How refreshing of you to speak so highly of your sister-in-law. She must be special. Your family always sounds very sweet.
ReplyDeleteI never get back here in time to comment on each of your comments. What lovely sentiments! I am humbled and encouraged. To answer a few: yes, my brother and I are Red Raider alums! He still lives in Lubbock. I have been having a pity party this weekend because all my siblings are there this weekend, and I couldn't make it.
ReplyDeleteI love hearing that so many of you are quilters. I feel that I live such a solitary quilt life that I rarely meet up with fellow quilters. I have a Jenny Beyer "Around the World" quilt kit stashed away for more than 5 years!! I only hope I can do her justice some day.
A note about your "Girls".. I have 3 lurking around the house who think they must check in on my progress from time to time. I understand your grief and hope it will be easier to handle over time. I encourage you to find another (or two) because another cat deserves to experience your love. That's not a "replacement"; it's a "pass it on"
Blessings to you all.
Suzanne
Wow. At least you and your siblings want to get together! You are blessed. Truly.
ReplyDeleteWhat a gorgeous quilt! You can push your homemade -y stuff on me anytime. What are your other crafts?
ReplyDeleteOnly people who like homemade things are my kind of people. Years ago, I was helping a friend pack things for a move. In the back of her closet was a lovely cross stitch of the woman's wedding invitation. She picked it up and tossed it aside, saying, "Why would I want something like this?" Then, she laughed. I was never able to feel comfortable around that woman again and the friendship eventually came to an end. While the friendship ended for a number of reasons, her careless attitude about the kindness of others, in general, was a huge factor. Again, your quilt is gorgeous. My favorite color is teal/robin's egg blue! When will mine be ready?
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